I'm not even sure what I want to say here, just that I need to say something. That we remember. That we'll always remember. That often when Oscar hits a small milestone I stop and think about Lincoln and how his mama should have had a chance to celebrate that milestone with him. That when Oscar has a terrible night or a super cranky day, it genuinely doesn't bother me, because I get to have him here with me, he gets to be here with us, and that is a gift.
That I'm grateful for knowing Jen. That her tragic loss has highlighted just how amazing she is. That she is what strength and grace in the face of tragedy looks like.
That Lincoln will be forever in our hearts.
All our love tomorrow Jen.